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Arvada Child Custody Attorney | How to Effectively Co-Parent with Your Former Spouse

rawpixel-682403-unsplash.jpgIt's very common that after an Arvada divorce and child custody case, there can be hard feelings. You don't just get to walk away from that person, as much as you may want to, if you share children. While you may not like it, it's important that you effectively communicate with your ex, because it's what's best for your children. After a divorce, they are going through a transition too, and the better the two of you handle things, the better your kids will as well.

Effective Co-Parenting in Jefferson County: Get on the Same Page

Here are some steps for effectively co-parenting with your former spouse:

1. Open Communication: This doesn't mean you need to chat about life and catch up, but you should be able to openly communicate about the children. You need to be able to discuss how you want your children to be raised. Not being on the same page can be damaging for your kids in the long run.

2. Clear and Concise Expectations: It's really helpful if you both come to the table with clear and concise expectations. It's likely that your conversation will be more productive if you both know exactly what your goals are and then can work together to come up with a plan to get there.

3. Mediation: If you and your former spouse simply can't communicate well, consider getting a mediator involved. An impartial third party can help keep the focus on what's important and keep the conversation pointed toward the ultimate goal.

4. Collaborate on a Set of Rules: Come up with a list of rules that will remain constant for the kids no matter which home they are living in. This will make the transition from one parent's home to the other much easier on your kiddos, because they know exactly what to expect. If the rules are very lax at one home and then strict at the other, it's likely that behavior issues will ensue.

If you are dealing with child custody, contact the best family law attorneys from the Pearman Law Firm at 720-259-9528 or toll free at 888-835-6339 for a free phone consultation.

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